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St. Mary's Parish
263 Hamilton Street
Southbridge MA 01550-1876
(508) 764-3226

 

Our parish has a rich and varied liturgical and sacramental life.  The schedule for Eucharistic celebrations is included on the home page.  The following is a list of other sacramental celebrations and information pertaining to them:

Sacrament of Reconciliation:  More familiarly known as confession, a priest is available every Saturday from 3:00 to 3:30 PM in the Reconciliation Room in the church.  Individual confession is also available during the week by appointment at the rectory.  Seasonal communal celebrations are held a couple of weeks before Christmas and the Wednesday of Holy Week.  Around the time of these communal celebrations there are additional times for individual confessions when a priest is available in the church.

Christian Initiation:  This involves those sacraments that initiate a person into belonging to the Catholic Church and sharing the fullness of our sacramental life.  There are different processes for infants and for children and adults over the age of five (5) years.

for infants:  For centuries the Church has encouraged the practice of the baptism of infants.  To assist parents in realizing this, there is a required baptismal instruction that is provided by Deacon Olson. Please contact the parish office to set up a time for the deacon to visit your home and explain the specifics regarding baptism.  There is a group class once a month on a Sunday afternoon to which parents and local godparents are expected to attend.  Parents are not required to be married by the Church to request baptism, but they must promise to do all they can to raise their child in the life and practice of the Catholic Church.  Godparents must be Christian and already baptized; at least one must be a confirmed Catholic and they should be chosen for their faith and Christian example.  The choice of godparents is for life, once the baptism is celebrated, godparents can not be changed, ever.

for adults:   Recently the Church has reinvigorated the practice of the catechumenate for anyone above the age of reason (5 or older) when approaching the Church for initiation.  This could include someone coming from another Christian tradition, an adult who has never been baptized, or an individual who was baptized as an infant, but never learned more about his or her Catholic faith.  The Church presents a series of rites and phases known as the Rite of Christian Initiation for Adults as a tool to assist one in being initiated into the Catholic Church.  There is a team of parishioners who meet on Sunday mornings to assist those interested in being formed as Catholics.  Baptism of adults is restricted to the Easter Vigil. For more information, contact the parish office.

Marriage:  It is truly a blessing when a couple determines that their love is a gift of God and they desire to commit themselves to each other for life.  Diocesan policy requires a notice of at least one year prior to a desired date of marriage in order to complete the necessary preparation work.  There are a series of couples that assist our parish working in a Couple to Couple relationship sharing the lessons of their own marriage and guiding couples embarking on this exciting and fulfilling journey of life - marriage.  If there is a previous marriage (Catholic, or non-Catholic), there are a variety of legal issues before one can be determined to be free to marry in the Church, it is best to contact the office at your earliest convenience, and before any date is set.  At the present rate, annulments require almost fourteen months of process time before receiving a freedom to marry.  No date can be set before the annulment decision is given.

Pastoral Care of the Sick:  The attending of those who are seriously ill, and administering the sacraments of the Church is an important part of parish life.  Ministers from the parish try to visit our local hospital, Harrington Memorial Hospital, each Sunday, Tuesday and Friday.  Other hospitals do not notify us of admissions.  When being admitted, please identify yourself as a parishioner of Saint Mary, and notify the rectory, we will do our best to assist you.  Those with serious illness are also entitled to receive the sacrament of the Anointing of the Sick.  Previously understood as the last rites, this sacrament is no longer reserved for those with immanent death, but for all afflicted of body, mind, or soul, who are in need of the Lord's healing graces.

Confirmation:  This sacrament of Initiation is regularly scheduled with one of our bishops on Ascension Thursday.  There is a formation program for high school students that begins in September.  Please contact the parish office.  Adults interested in being confirmed, various classes and celebrations are held throughout the year, depending upon need and request.  Please contact the parish office.

Orders:  The need for men who are willing to dedicate their lives to the ministry and mission of the Church is ongoing.  Those discerning a call to serve as deacons or priests are asked to contact our pastor for more information on the resources available.

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